![]() I even created a fake account to check if people can actually see my profile because I literally felt I was invisible.Īfter that I assumed there was something catastrophically wrong with my profile so I spent TENS OF HOURS tweaking it with no results. I never complemented them on their looks, I asked meaningful questions and always made sure there was something in the message that would make them laugh or smile. In the first week I maybe went through a 1,000 profiles and sent over 50 personal, well-written messages to women with at least a 90% match percentage and with who I have a LOT in common. This got me to finally create a profile on OKC. I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years earlier in January of this year and I work from home now so I meet very few people. It was very easy to meet girls in school and when I worked in Manhattan I’d run into women all the time so dating was never an issue for me. I am good at talking to women and I have never been single for longer than a few weeks in more than a decade and I’m only 26. I’m a fairly good-looking guy, liberal but grew up in a conservative household with a lot of values, well-traveled, athletic, have a great job and I can hold conversations about pretty much anything. Because, frankly, this here scum slut has had enough. So, next time you encounter a man who rants indignant because they haven’t received a polite decline, feel free to send him the link to this page. ![]() We’re not trying to be rude, we are just trying to be efficient and to protect ourselves from immature, unwarranted insults. Guys, you are not entitled to a response. I’m sorry if a few bad apples ruin it for the nice guys, but why on earth would we allow ourselves to be subjected to this kind of abuse just because someone’s goddamned ego was too precious? That’s a whole lotta OR NAH. Now that this little experiment is complete, I am going back to the unwritten rule, and dudes are just gonna have to suck it the fuck up. Some behaved like 8-year-old boys.Īnd some were horrifying, evil, fire-spitting swamp monsters. Seriously, ain’t nobody got time for that. Some guys were totally OK with it.Ī couple guys wanted a lengthy dialog about why I wasn’t interested. But how does it REALLY feel when you read those words of rejection? Probably not too fuckin’ good, TBH. So I began to wonder, what would happen if I actually replied to all of these men? They say they want a response, even if it’s to politely decline their advance. However, it bites donkey simply because they’re not interested, not because I think they’re lowdown, motherfucking dicks for not replying. I’ve sent messages to guys, received no reply and, yes, it bites sweaty, donkey ass. ![]() Now, I’ve been on the other side of the coin as well. It would be extremely time consuming to respond personally to each one, which is why we normally just defer to the universal rule mentioned above – no reply means not interested. As I said, we get a shitload of messages. Like this guy:Ĭredit: Instagram here’s the thing. In fact, a lot of dudes get pissy and claim that if they took the time to write a message, women should at least have the courtesy of replying, even if it’s to say we’re not interested. And men get frustrated that the vast majority of their messages go unanswered. I’m not saying this to sound high and mighty or whatever, it’s just the truth. So many, sometimes, that it’s hard to keep up. ![]() It’s no secret that women receive far more messages online than do men. Mostly men, anyway, because men initiate contact more often than women. However, some people get a raging ass bee in their bonnet over it. Sounds pretty simple and straightforward, right? Most people get it and are just fine with it. There is a universal yet unwritten rule among people who date online: if someone doesn’t respond to your initial message, it means they’re not interested. ( 93 Comments ) I Responded To Everyone Who Messaged Me On OkCupid and Here’s What Happened.
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